Understanding female nature: Most men go through life learning the truth about women the hard way, through rejection, heartbreak, and wasted time. But today, I’m saving you the trouble. There are 12 harsh truths about women that many men out there figure out only when it’s too late. If you grab this now, you’re going to avoid years of confusion and even disappointment. So, let’s dive in. But before then, hello, welcome back to the channel. If you’re new here, thank you so much for tuning in. My name is Wendy Zill, and in today’s video, I’m going to reveal 12 truths about women. These are harsh, but then they are the truth, and it’s going to save you a whole lot of time.
So, you’re ready let’s get into it. Women love men with options, a man who so many other women desire and trust me for you to be desired by so many women. You’re not just any kind of guy. You might be anyhow kind of guy because it’s not anyhow kind of guy that women want to go to, and everybody’s like, the guy is so cute, oh look at him, oh look at this, these are exceptional guys who are doing the right thing, so if you’re a woman, you’re going to be a woman you’re going things that is why a lot of women are pointing at them and are attracted to them a woman wants a man who is able to lead his own life and then, of course, lead others kindness might Get her to listen to you, of course, because you’re kind, you’re nice, and you’re well-spoken.
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But then, one of the things that is going to keep her in your life is your ability to be a leader; women love men who have leadership strengths, powerful men because leadership makes you powerful. She is going to test you because she wants to know what kind of man you are: do you have strength within? Do you have depth? Are you the kind of man that can be tossed here and there? Sometimes, you try to do things that are not nice to see your reaction; are you the kind of man who has boundaries, or are you the kind of person who does everything? Goes with you; people disrespect you, you can’t
even say anything, people come to your house, they can’t even borrow the entire furniture in your house. You go and damage it, and you’ll be like, what are you going to do now if I don’t give them now? They’re going to say, we care. Do you know? Are you the kind of person she wants to know if you have great boundaries? We are future-oriented. Suppose I’m looking at you and I’m considering that I’m going to spend my life with you. In that case, I’m going to even be in a relationship with you for like some time, then I’m thinking, what kind of person are you, the kind of person who has boundaries? Do you have respect For yourself? How do you treat other people? She’s going to test you because she wants to know.
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Because if she’s able to control you and toss you around, then it means that any other person out there might be able to do the same, and that alone is going to scare her away because she doesn’t want a man who is a weakling. Our love may be conditional. Honestly, let’s just be honest with ourselves; let’s face reality. If you want unconditional love, my brother, look towards God; He is the author and finisher of our faith. Look at Him. If you want unconditional love, get a dog. All right, but human beings generally are not even Particular to women alone, human beings generally; most times, if you look at the love we give, somehow, it is tied to something.
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A man will tell you that, ‘Oh, I love this woman. She’s beautiful. ‘I just like her because of the way she looks.’ ‘I just love her because she’s so peaceful. She gives me peace. So, there is always a condition to love. So, women are like that; they’re not an exception. Okay, one boy says, ‘Oh, God, I love this man.’ This woman is beautiful; this man is righteous; this man is kind; this man is a man because when I’m around him, I feel at home; I feel at ease. He’s my rock. He’s a leader; he’s a good provider.’ There is always a reason why. A woman would love you. Something is going to bring you to the door, right that attraction is going to bring you to the door, but what is going to keep you there is your conscious decision; you decided that, okay, I’m going to be with this man, I love him
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because this is my choice and I’m going to continue to love him because every day you have to continue to make that commitment, especially for those of us who are married. Alright, it’s not easy to be married to one man for the rest of your life; it’s not as if you don’t go out and you see things out there as a man; you don’t go out, and you see women out there, but then you have made the decision. That I choose you, my beautiful wife, and I’m gonna be with you, okay. But then the reality is that most times our attractions, our love, are tied to something, and women are no exceptions when it comes to this, okay? Don’t chase a woman if you chase her too much; you’d be like this: They pursue me too much.
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What’s happening? I don’t trust his intentions. Why is he chasing me like this? See finish, enter disrespect went up because you’re always available, always chasing her, always professing love-you’re the only thing that makes sense in my life. Please don’t leave me, Diana. Please don’t leave me for like him. Please don’t leave me, Mary. I love you with my blood; I love you with my bone. Guy, calm down; that is not going to make her stay with you. Be a man. Sometimes they touch a little bit. Give her distance let her miss you when she misses your energy and misses your presence. Then she will determine if she wants you or not, chasing her around every minute. I mean, you’re not going to make her be with you. Don’t let a woman stay with you out of pity because sooner or later, she’s going to still dump you, so what’s the point?
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Okay, so if you chase, she’ll go, and you get the point now. She wants a leader, a man who can lead, because we are created to be helpmates, and we are a family of People who are coming into your life to help you. What are we going to help you do? Are you a leader? Do you have structures in place? And when I say ‘structure,’ I’m not talking about buildings or houses or cars that look like homes, far from it! How is your life structured? Are you going somewhere? Do you have focus? Do you have a purpose? Do you have dreams? Do you have things you’re working on that we can actually help you achieve? That’s a question.
Another thing when it comes to leadership is that a woman wants you to lead her, even in the bedroom- maybe you have, you know, sex with your wife every time you don’t take the initiative. You don’t initiate anything romantic; you’re just there one style, one style. She got tired now, sometimes be spontaneous, be a leader when you want to go out on a date, don’t always seek approval, you know. There are things that, when it comes to marriage, are honestly there are things that you cannot do because you would have to talk, to talk with you; I know like you’re seeking permission, but you have to discuss it with your wife because you’re in that relationship, in that marriage together now those things, those are like exceptional like things like having children but things like maybe you’re taking out On a date, you’re not be asking now where should I take you?
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To where should I not? Now, you know, use your initiative. Book a date, take her out, surprise her. All of those things make you a leader and it’s very attractive. These are things that will make a woman like, she’d be like, ‘Wow, this my husband-full of wonder,’ and she’ll continue to love you. Women don’t always pay attention to what you say but what you do. So, you can say, ‘I love you, baby, but if your action is saying otherwise, then that’s what she’s going to take. That’s why you’ll be surprised when a woman tells you that she’s not interested anymore, and then maybe you Always profess love to her, you tell her you love her, and you like making your feelings known to her, but then she’s looking at other things not just about what you say with your mouth.
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So we listen to you quietly, all right, we hear you all right, we hear you loud and clear when you say ‘I love you,’ especially. But then what do you do? How do you portray that love? That is what we take, and that is what matters to most women, anyway. Okay, I can’t be with a man who I don’t respect. Respect is very important to men and for us women too; it’s also very important to us because I’ll have to be able to respect you before I’m able to love you. So the moment she loses respect for you, then there is a problem in that relationship. You can recover from disagreements, you can recover from fights and all those things, but once a woman loses respect for you, then the game has changed, so you now have to start earning her respect again or doing things that will make you and her respect again you have to put in the effort okay it’s just like trust it takes just one action for you to break the trust that maybe you’ve built over 15 years 20 years that’s why you have to be careful if one is respectful to you and you as a man you know that our respect is very important to you because I know that it is too many in fact I have not seen any man on earth who will say that he doesn’t like a woman to respect him.
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The only thing I know is that respect for every man is not the same as it is for Mr. A. This might be respect to Mr. B; he might not mind, but maybe he minds some other kinds of things, okay so… But the bottom line is that most men want respect and if a woman loses respect for you, it’s almost as if it’s over; she can love you today and leave you tomorrow. This is one hashtag that a lot of people are confused by, and they’ll be like, ‘At this moment when I married her, she’s like this; she’s so homely, she’s so loving… What’s happening to my wife? I’m looking for my wife, this person Right here staring at me right here is not my wife.
You shouldn’t base the reason why you’re going into marriage based on just feelings, attraction, and love. All of that, they are good; they are fantastic. But trust me, that is not the only thing you need. Compatibility is important: are your goals and beliefs aligned? Because love can fade. She can love you today, and the next day, she’s not feeling it. Depending on what kind of woman she is, she might leave you. She’ll say something like, ‘I’m not feeling it anymore.’ I don’t feel that spark in me anymore. Because not everybody understands that love is a conscious decision; it’s not. Everybody understands that when you begin to lose attraction, you need to trigger the attraction. You need to remember the things that made you fall in love in the first place.
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Some people don’t take the time to think about these things the moment they don’t feel it, the moment they don’t feel a certain way; they’re just gone. Do you understand? So that’s a harsh reality about women, all of us, anyway. Some of us are integrated enough and knowledgeable enough to understand that. Okay, I felt like this before we got married, even while we were married, the first few years. But now, even though I’m not feeling like this, I’m not feeling like this, I’m not feeling like this anymore. Maybe because of these or maybe because of that. Okay, what if we try to rekindle that attraction again? What if we go back to, you know, dating ourselves again, but unfortunately, not everybody understands these things like this, so she can love you today and disappear the next day.
Unfortunately, I’m sorry, brother, she is attracted to the man. You are not the man you promised to be, and this is where patterns come into play…. I remember one time I talked about falling in love with a pattern; okay; okay, I said marrying patterns, not love or something. Like that and somebody was asking me somebody sent me a mason and you’re like what do you mean by marry pattern what i’m like see you can tell a woman that you want to be bill gates tomorrow you want to be elo Ashmaq next tomorrow but all of that deceit that it’s good to have big dreams and ambition but then what do you do now whatare you doing what are you now that is what that matters to us i’m not saying that a woman will not believe in your dreams okay but then if you say you’re going this way there is something that will definitely show that you’re actually going that way if you say you want to be great you want to be a successful businessman there is something that you should be doing that would make like that would show that you’re actually getting there so what are your patterns are you the type of person who can’t even keep a job for three months you just go from job to job to job any small thing you don’t push
it you don’t fight they don’t fire you you don’t go yeah let me go now get another job it’s not about what you say you are you can tell a woman that i see i’m a man of God i’ve been called there’s a calling on my life but then you guys are going to the bus stop before you get to the bus stop you don’t break bottle for person head you know things like that It is what you do now, it is the patterns that you portray now that will determine how she would see you. You must always be willing to walk away; that is the ultimate power. The moment a woman realizes that you can walk away from her life any moment, she’s gonna like stay on her toes; she’s gonna be at the edge because, especially if you’re a good man, she won’t want to lose you.
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But if you’re always just there, you’re just keeping body like say if you leave me I go bye, she will be the one to leave, okay? But know that especially when it comes to setting boundaries, boundaries are very important. If she’s misbehaving, don’t condone it, call. It’s out; call out her BS, let her know that the next time you do this, I’m not going to be in this relationship, and this doesn’t mean that you have to begin to threaten her because that in itself is not good too when you begin to threaten someone every time you’re in a relationship. You’re like, I’m going to walk away, I’m going to leave, or
maybe you’re married. Every time you’re like, I want a divorce, I think I want a divorce; you know, if you’re threatening somebody like that in that way all the time, the person is going to be the one to leave you, the person might just be the first to leave you, okay but then what I’m trying to say here Is that setting your boundaries and making sure that you don’t falter, okay? She doesn’t come, maybe she stays out late, 10: 00 pm, 11:00 pm. She’s not back home; it’s not as if she went to work, and then you’re wondering why you are staying out late. A woman who is married should have respect for her husband; she should know that, okay? Once this evening, I should be at home with my husband, except, of course, for work.
All right, things like that when things like that happen, and you condone it because you feel that she’s just too beautiful; I can’t leave her. Where will I find a woman like this again, who will love me like this again and look? At her now, look at how she’s looking. If you keep doing that, she will be the one to leave. This is like the conclusion of everything. Women love strength; be a man of strength, and when I say strength, it’s not about fists or beating her or before she said Jacobin sing. You don’t blow her eye; give her a black eye. No, not that far from it. Please, in fact, I believe some weak men used to beat women because a weak-willed man, who doesn’t have strength in his character, is the one who wants to use his fist.
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If you’re a man who is trying to use your fist all the time, then you need to sit down and talk to yourself and really Really know who you are because a man who has strength of character will not raise his hand on the woman, no matter how heated things get; you walk away. Okay, women don’t always like men who seek validation unnecessarily; this is like the being nice kind of thing, like being the nice guy because you’re too nice. I’ve talked about this earlier on. Because you’re too nice, you want to seek her validation And Mama, how far do I want to go? Visit my mom; see you this weekend? I want to go and visit my mom this weekend. Can I go?
I don’t understand; she’s your mom! If you want to go and visit your mother, do you need to get permission from Your wife before you go and do the things you want to do? You might be thinking that you’re being loving; you’re just being kind. Still, then there’s a thin line between being warm and kind and being too emotionally dependent on a woman, and that is going to like she will feel the pressure, she doesn’t like it, and she will pull away because she wants a strong man, confidence, a man that she can lean on, not the other way around. Okay, so don’t become a feminine man just because you’re in love and because you feel that this woman might leave you if you don’t know. It’s not like that. Don’t think that if you don’t do certain things, a woman will leave you.
Just establish who you are, and be confident. These 12 truths might be hard, but then the sooner you accept them, the better for you and the better your relationships will be. If you’ve learned any of these things the hard way, let me know in the comment section below. Thank you for watching up to this point and thank you for subscribing. If you like this video, you’ll like this one on the screen. I’ll see you there. Bye.
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