Marrying a foreigner for wealth: I Thought Getting Married To Oyibo Will Make Me Rich. I’ve Been Married For 13 Years, Yet I’m Not Rich
It has been happening from the beginning of the world. So, it’s not been nine years. So, it’s not been nine years. Yes, it happens. So, my journey is agreed to. But it’s not been nine years. At this very moment, I will start. She’s going to notice now. She won’t tell us. So, it’ll be you. Bye, guys. So, how long have you been here now? Thirteen years. Huh? Yes, thirteen years. Thirteen years? Yes. Wow. How long have you been here now? Life is good, but you want to hear the main thing. That’d be just the ask. I want to hear how life is here. Life here is sweet. It’s sweet. It’s sweet; if you really understand how the place is. But, if you don’t understand, I mean, it’s not sweet.
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It’s not sweet at all. Honestly, it’s not sweet. So, hit me the jack now. What do you say? Do you want to tell me? Okay. I’ve been watching your videos. Ah. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you so much. And they are cool. Okay. Then, there’s a little contribution I want to make. Okay. The part of coming to Europe and staying in Nigeria. Like, there is this truth where people don’t come before us. Like me, now, I don’t stay here for thirteen years. Mm-hmm. But, you get one truth where many people don’t come before us; no, they agree to tell us. Okay. And most of the time, if they remember me, they verse me. Okay. They verse me on to say sometimes. I won’t give them boom, boom, boom.
But, you know, don’t say anything. So, I want to tell other people where they plan to go. Mm-hmm. You know me, I would like to tell the truth unless I don’t say. Mm-hmm. I want to talk. So, the truth is, people when they come before us, they always tell us, say, if you come abroad, everything there, you know, everything that I make, eh, they know they tell us, say, no be a CB. Okay. You know, by then, they don’t tell us, say, don’t sugarcoat the abroad. You go, come, use your two left legs like this, jump. You don’t enter abroad. Mm-hmm. By then, you enter. Ah, so and so, you be. Then, most of them, when they don’t land like that, see, say, you know, good.
They know, go, come, tell us, say, people where they, they know, go, come, tell people where city there, Nigeria, say, you know good. They go, say, ah, come, come, come. And most of the time, even if they tell them, they go, say, ah, you were there, why you did not come back? Okay. Why did you not come back? If you know good, come back. I have a lot of friends who told me the same thing. Now, they are here. Now, they don’t understand what are they talk. So, the thing is, Nigeria and that place will be, see, they’re like free land. You can do anything. You go, say, by the grace of God, or you go, say, by luck, you go, overcome, or you go, survive the thing. But here, it’s not like that.
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Let’s say you commit a crime in Nigeria now. You can run from Bini, go to Lagos. The matter doesn’t change. They don’t seal up. Nobody knew. After 20, you go back again. Everything goes still. But you know, they’re like that here. Like here, you don’t feel escape because everything, they don’t document them, you know. Anywhere you go, even if you go to Germany, you go to London, anywhere, this thing goes still, they wait for you. They like, what did they tell me? They tell me, say, once I come here, especially, we now, we marry Oibo. Now, there they go. We know, they say, once you marry Oibo, you know, you don’t marry a bank. But it’s not like that. Talk true. Yeah, it’s not like that. Okay. It’s not like that.
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It’s not like that because when you come, you have to work. Even if your husband carries all the money when he gets to give you, what about your children? What are you living for them? They will not come and be, you know, living that same life that you are running away from Nigeria for. And one thing with money, what you don’t make when they give you, you don’t go for handle and wear. Before you go, you chop; you buy, you know, you know, you know, the money doesn’t disappear because it isn’t as soon as it be. Then, by the time you don’t clock 40 or 50, you don’t deserve it. Why you then you like say, people when marry Oibo, if they dead 10, not only 2, 50, you say, see what you now achieve.
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You go to see, and you say, I know this by mouth. But then that time I did in Nigeria, they didn’t tell us. My children get 10 passports. You know, they’re going to blow those lies. I don’t build that, see, I don’t build here, build here. But at 50, if you can’t see them, they are just wretched. Talk true. Yes. So, to marry Oibo does not mean you will get money? You know me? You know me? Even if you marry a rich man, if you don’t get the mentality of a rich man, you don’t feel like maintaining that money. And that money vanishes. Money is hard to get, but it is very easy to spend. Talk true. Yes. Clear. In Nigeria now, most of us we never even seen better money before.
And what you never see, you don’t feel know how to handle them. Like, you know, how you tell know your Oibo husband? We met in Nigeria. By Nigeria? Yes, we married in Nigeria. Okay. For where in Nigeria? For Takut. Talk true. Yes. So, now, you go with the dealer; how can you be that? Ah, yeah. Okay. Mm-hmm. Is it clear? So, now, she calls, okay, he calls, you call here? Yes. Okay. So, for that 30 years now, you don’t do here? Yes. You don’t marry them? Yes. Okay. So, how will life be when you marry Oibo? Life is the thing that they talk about now. Mm-hmm. I won’t lie to you. I see him; he’s a sweet guy, you know. But, not be the sweetness.
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I look, oh. I took the money that I wanted to come back. Ah. Yes. Because I don’t lie what they tell us. Mm-hmm. You understand? And I don’t lie. Mm-hmm. Now, I don’t want to make young people fall into this. Okay. You understand? Say, if you marry Oibo. So, when you want to marry now, mm-hmm, you know, you want to marry, let’s say, Elon Musk now. You know, get the mentality of Elon Musk. Mm-hmm. What do you think your life will be like? That kind of thing. Mm-hmm. But, we may feel like, say, as long as the, the, my husband reach, they’re going to be packing money they give you now. Eh, half an, after 50 years. Mm-hmm. When they don’t call up 50 years, you don’t see such people on the road before.
Mm-hmm. Okay, but you marry Oibo. But, people will marry Nigerian men. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. If you marry a rich man, you know, get that mentality of a rich person. Okay. Like to handle a rich man. A wealth. Mm-hmm. You go poor overnight. Ah. You come, you know, come the day I’ve been. I’ve been. Mm-hmm. That one does not talk. Mm-hmm. You understand? Mm-hmm. So, that’s it. Suppose people were, um, they here before us. They tell us all these things. Mm-hmm. Most of us will not jump into marriage like that. Not true. Yes. We for really think and prepare ourselves. And again, mistake what our parents do too. Mm-hmm. They push young girls on to say, marry. Once you marry, your life is better.
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Ah. But no, they do not prepare us. Mm-hmm. But they do not say marriage. Mm-hmm. No, become and chop. It is work. It’s a con; it’s a con. Mm-hmm. And they feed you. It’s a, it’s a continual. Mm-hmm. Journey. Journey. Mm-hmm. I beg, I beg. And they feed you. Cut this part. Don’t worry. They go, they go everywhere. Marriage is a work. It’s a very hard work. Not true. Yes. The more you work, what you give to your work is what the work will bring back to you. So, how long have you been there for marriage now? I did there, I, I, they go almost 14 years now. 14 years. Yes. So, how many do you get kids for your children now? Do you have kids with your husband now?
Two. Two? Mm-hmm. Wow. So tell me, what is the sort of what you say about your husband before you marry him? Ah. Ah, nice guy now. That sweet boy. Ah. That one is number one, yes. Okay. Okay. Then, number two, that lie where they tell us if you marry a Yibo, you don’t blow. Ah, you never see blow? For where? I look like we don’t blow. So you marry a Yibo, you don’t blow? For where? Now lie where they tell us so, I jump, enter. I don’t, I don’t jump, and I enter. Where is the money? I can’t even catch the people now who like that lie for me. My life comes to that person. I’ll tell you. So you marry a Yibo, not warranty say your life go better.
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I want a warranty when you don’t get sense. Ah. If you don’t get a sense, you squander the little one where you see. By then, you squander, and nah. Before you go, no, they don’t jump to another marriage. Think it’s in a marriage, nah, it ain’t be the problem, no. It is that mentality that you get from the injury. Say, once you marry, your life is better. If you marry a Yibo, your life will be better. If you rush and enter another country, your life is better. No, you have to systemize your brain first. Be clear. What’s even the different way you notice now? About Yibo men and our Nanja men? Ah. Different day, a very big one. Okay. Hit me now. Be honest. And the truth is, to marry a Yibo is very difficult.
It’s like, work where you are supposed to use like one day work. You marry a Yibo. That work, that work now, you can’t use like seven days work. Like? Like now. For example, let me use myself because I know that everybody is married. So, let me use my own. I married my husband. My husband is Nigerian. Nigerian speaks English, right? But them now, they speak Italian. So, like when I met my husband, he’s almost sign language; now they talk. So that one is a big job. Imagine falling in love with somebody you can’t even communicate with. Do they know they hear English? If they hear English, they speak, but it’s not like, you understand, because they don’t speak English. So he was trying, you know, to communicate with me.
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He says like, you they talk, me I know they talk. So. I can’t speak. You understand? Yeah. So it isn’t easy. Secondly, when you don’t marry, the mentality is very different. Okay. He now tells you, say I need to go to work. I work like eight hours to make money. You’ll be like eight hours before you make money. Why Nigerian man go tell you and not say, I won’t work. I go pray. Get one thing; we hit the money, go come. And sometimes it happens like that. But European, no? If not, that’s your time. He says the schedule, I’m not so. No miracle. So, for you now away from Nigeria, come to adopt that mentality. It will take you more time and years to understand it.
Him too, when they explain that thing give you, it’s another double job. Solely, that one is a female person. Separate. You understand? So you both more caring than Nigerian men? Another one now. Okay. For that caring part. Yeah. You both they caring on to say they are not selfish. Yeah. Anywhere So, but then 90% of you understand, say you have the feelings. Me, I have. So if they do something, they go one balance and 50 50. For example, now. Sorry. It’s rice. No. You can’t ask. He will ask you. Do you want to eat rice? You say, no, I won’t eat. He will respect. And that’s what you want to eat. But African man. Rice. I said I could cook for this house. He goes chop out.
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It’s like that. Example. Secondly. Oh, you will say. I don’t want to. Let’s say I want you to come to my mother’s house today. You say, no, I’m not feeling well. I’m not going. You know, your mama doesn’t like me. So there is no need to go in there every time. You respect them because that’s the truth. But Nigerian man. My mama does not eat. They talk. They force you before you go. No, you go go there. You go break table. You break your mother-in-law’s head. Yes, not true. Don’t be wasting. I’m not lying. Don’t waste what they do. Talk true. I don’t feel you. I don’t feel you. So another one says. Oh, you don’t understand. Say you cleaning house is work.
You taking care of kids is a big work. They will try to assist. But Nigerian man. You want to use my money. I marry my money. How much is that money? So, Nigerian men assist, too. You need assistance. Why not? I never marry, but why not? Marry first. Make your wife turn. Your wife will ask. I don’t really get the mindset. Why did you get the mindset? Because you came here, Nabi. Even when I tell Naja they cook now. Anyway, it’s good. But how many of you don’t? You and I were girlfriends. Exactly. That’s true. You know being a housewife even if you are not working is a very big time work. But many Nigerian men don’t understand that. Another thing is they make many people.
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Suppose you go to Nigeria now. Many divorces. They divorce everywhere. It’s not hidden anymore. You understand? Then, another thought. They hear they do 50-50 for money. They do 50-50. Nigerian men don’t do that. Now, that particular one, they wonder. Why is it that people don’t do calculations well? Now if you go to. Let’s leave rich people now alone. Let’s talk about normal, average Nigerians. The average Nigerian women get a shop. Let’s say a kiosk. Now, from that kiosk. You go. Give him picking chewing gum. Give picking biscuits. Give picking milk. Right? You go from there, cook. Wait, your husband, go chop. Right? Many of them. Now, they are there to pick up school fees. Sometimes. Sometimes. Yeah, I say many of them. I did not say all of them.
You understand? Yeah. Is that not 50-50? Sure. And the woman, too. Take care of children clean. Is that not 50-50? So, what are you talking about? Why not you? Because they make them 50-50. As in, it’s really calculated. Because they don’t. Every life is programmed. As in it’s not something that you will not understand. They will say okay, wife. Food now. Now, let’s say. Now 50 euros you use they eat. I bring 25. You bring 25. I go clean. You go clean. Life goes there more easier. You understand? If they talk about Nigerians. People go come they say how. You both they do 50-50. Me, I don’t go 50-50 for house. Meanwhile, picking where you sit down for the house they cook is already 50-50.
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Do you know how much is babysitting? Even Nigerians are now paying for babysitting. Do you know how much it is? Okay. Most of them are now they go divorced. Nowhere to go. You will come they say I did this marriage because I don’t get where to go. Not be 50-50 with that. That’s where you paid your own. You don’t pay your own 50-50 with that now. I will not be am. But people. You don’t go separate. You don’t share 50-50. Not be am. Life is easy. So, Nigerians would always like to complicate things. Is it clear? You understand? Like I interview somebody. He says many people. Many Nigerian women. Where Maru you go? Where Maru you go for this abroad? Then they see they like to knock.
Nigerian. Bola. You know those black bola. That one is a normal national item. Where people talk. But then I want you to say. If you tell your wife, let’s go to DNA. Church go scatter. So like. So they know they knock. So, like you not. Like not true. I say a lie before. It has been happening. All. I want to talk. It has been happening from the beginning of the world. So. So not be. Now you know. Maru, you go. This is a good knock. Not German. It. Yes. It happens. It happens. I can say it’s all. It happens. But then Nigerian women. To. We’re married. Our Nigerian blood. Didn’t knock. So it is the same. So why did they get on and now? I said only. Oh, you go, women.
I’m bad. Why, he says most people. If you tell your mama. Mama. Go DNA. You begin the sharp blood of Jesus. Why? What are you running from DNA? Why? Why are you running from DNA? If you know, gonna come on. So what is the difference? So you see a miss Nigerian man. I know. I know they miss me because I even do what I do when I never marry. I know if you remember anything inside them. So I don’t. Yes. I know they do. So I don’t fit us because I know they do another person. They do so. So you know. Those are where this is. I know. I know. I know that monk because nobody will come to send on that man. So. So. I know that monk.
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So anybody will talk. People will marry you. But they are not black men. Not their own. They talk. And if he is talking to my friend. I go say tell your mama to do DNA. I could look now with a with a shot for him. So, no go, just general. Generalize things like that. It’s not good to generalize something because even we will be in Nigeria. He gave one proverb with a little for Nigeria, saying only woman. I know who is pregnant. That proverb doesn’t date from more than 200 years ago. What do you think? You see that another knock. Now God to knock them. Don’t be God, knock them. So many say many things they go on. It has been happening. Yes. It has been happening in the world.
So why he be said then carry you go and come out for the front. I made him talk. I’m the way he be. He shocks you. He does not shock me because I don’t hear the matter say many women way they are brothers. Yeah, it’s happens. They will say they see me there. You know, you need black. You can need red. You can meet me. Need green. It is normal. It happens in life. So, that mood swings now. I don’t understand. What do you mean by me? No, it’s not a good question. So like, what if the challenge is not tomorrow? You go now. Now the challenges have been they try to talk now say it is very difficult. Okay, let’s say the challenge is not like waiting. I talked before.
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Let’s say when me and my husband would all you know, we don’t know each other. We can’t come here. Another challenge starts with number one: temperature. I hate Nigeria. I like to the way, you know, sick and pee, you know, but yeah, I have to be by force because of the temperature, and once you enter, you must adapt as a forcefully without you understand that one not you reach like me and I make me crazy. You understand. Secondly, I wouldn’t be past the past, and I know how you want to eat. You know eat a bami like you understand. So you reach you can be like this one month. You got a chance of kind. Yeah, something where you don’t know, something where you don’t know.
So you reach to even scatter table. So now all these things make you the day like so you born marriage. No, they are to last with black people. You understand that only this, you know, then again, they are all breaking is very different before not going to start this one like yesterday. I was telling my husband what happened in Nigeria. I can’t say I will need to pray. They need to pray there. He was like, Do you understand? I can’t tell if I saw God beg leave me. I don’t feel explain. You understand. But then, if you know the best way to understand life. Wow, this man doesn’t understand me. He may be named a village. We don’t send come for me. Do you understand what I mean? Mentality tells you.
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But if you don’t understand, I sent a mentality like go there. JJ is not lying. You understand. Be clever. So how about your family? The family still welcome you. Was it difficult for you to like it very, very good? Very, very big challenge. But when you love a man, you go equally loving family. Especially when they are free, I know, go fit. You do not say you are getting your ego. Okay, you would like to make your become married black. We will say yes because of the racism. You understand what they did. But then, when they don’t see him, that is why he is different from the black character. And you know, when they don’t see and say their son is in love. They go. They will respect her. You understand.
But Nigerian people, when they say their son is in love with who they know like a big forget to say I see; they give that woman your son. He will not have peace. You understand your son will not be happy. You do not get, you know, some people will make their choice. Leave them. You can’t force them. They are already adults. So is what my people did. So that’s why we are in peace.
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You know me too. I know, force them to like me. OK. I won’t come. I won’t come. I might take me like that. Even when me and my sister-in-law won’t get, you know, she was like I like sister-in-law. I won’t come. Do you accept me or not?
You don’t get a choice in this part. Now, you don’t get a choice. So you have to accept me. Me too. I accept and say it is not their choice. You understand. So if they do, let’s say you go to a family gathering. I will do that, but they come out. Now they are saying let them do it. I know you don’t like me. I’m not forcing you to like me. But there, your day makes a day my day. That is working. That is why we have been in peace. But if you are my mother, he got. You know. So now that is when I dream people need to; they really need to think and understand how to amend. Your best way. You know, parents must not like you for peace today.
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Give them their space, and mother-in-law and sister-in-law suppose. No, say you are not who your brother married you as a way. Not be who you want your brother to marry. Must not give my own space to a peaceful day. And you’re happily married now. I don’t know now. Check out a check now. I’m OK. We are OK. So yeah, we are cutting. So you don’t get a husband gonna do that now, ever since then. We don’t go like five times here. We are still planning to go again. Your children can see the chips. I don’t know. Hey, they’re a dragon. They’re a dragon. My husband, you know, they chop. But they chop plantain. They chop indomie. They chop all those little, little ones. And I know they force him.
There was a time I didn’t force him to eat gare. But he knows it’s not easy for him. So I let him be. I cook my own. He took his own. That’s all they do. But if a Nigerian man now, he must chop, you know. Fire doesn’t start for a house. A person goes come, they chop what he knows like how the person wants to take their hand. Not be all Nigerian man. Not be all. They wouldn’t respect boundaries. Eh, since when? They wouldn’t respect boundaries. Since when? It’s been long. It’s been long. Not generalize. Like as they did, they talk, they cannot generalize sense, you know. Yeah, me, when I meet somebody, tell me your standard, your boundaries. I respect that. That one like you. How many of your friends are good ones?
People are there now; why not now? I say, I do not say, people. How many of your friends? How many people? It’s the, the, the, the, the, the dookie, the tight. Eh, clear? Eh, clear? Eh, clear? So if you get somebody, if your friend now says he wants to marry, what do you tell her? Ah. Anyway, if my friend says Nigerian man dey here he wants to marry him. Or Yubo man dey here he wants to marry him. The truth I go tell him to say, for you to last a marriage, no determine who you marry. Mm-hmm. Waiting, waiting, you carry the comb for the marriage. OK. This one enters. Waiting for the man to carry the comb in marriage. Waiting for you, you two carry a comb, comb marriage. OK.
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Then another thing that I tell that my friend Nabi says is before you marry, you carry a comb. For example, I do not advise him to say as you marry, keep your leg like this, you know because everybody needs help. Mm-hmm. You might help without giving money. Mm-hmm. You might help without bringing cars or bringing wealth. Mm-hmm. Get sense. OK. Yes. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So, what if it those things now, what you don’t do now, what you don’t keep your marriage long like this now? Because even many people will marry Yubo, so not even two years. So, the moment they carry the comb here, they run. OK. So, what can you make your stay in your marriage up to this very moment? OK. Waiting, I say what makes me stay.
It doesn’t point out one particular thing. OK. But waiting, I say what makes me now understand him. OK. And. Mm-hmm. Understand him. Like what you will see will make you feel like say, ah, I enjoy this marriage. I like this marriage. I’m happy to marry this man. What I will see me say, I am free to say what thing I feel. OK. And how I want things. Mm-hmm. Even when I tell him, this is how I want this thing to be. Mm-hmm. He knows one time if they give me his reason. OK. Me not bring my reason why I want time like this. Mm-hmm. We will compare our contracts. Mm-hmm. Any one way in reason I am strong pass.
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Mm-hmm. And that one will they follow. Ah. Yeah. So that thing makes as they go. Mm-hmm. Because too, I will be a person when I’m too quiet, but I know they hear the words. Ah. Yes. I know they hear. You so go. Eh. I know they agree. Everybody that you know me knows me; I know they agree. Go that there, go. But then, exactly. But then, eh, I know they are selfish. OK. You understand? Mm-hmm. And they like to understand you waiting you want. Mm-hmm. You talk, I say no, see waiting for me want to. Mm-hmm. Then check and well. Mm-hmm. And see the one where they are more important. Mm-hmm. If not your own. Yeah. Check it now. OK.
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As you see, they are since your husband pays the bills. That bill is now. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. I wish I could. Mm-hmm. Ah, for the assist. Mm-hmm. I know, I know they lie. Mm-hmm. But then at the assist want to say. Mm-hmm. I give them good advice. OK. You understand? Mm-hmm. Good advice, and in the list now they take. Mm-hmm. Secondly, I show them every day and say if I have, I will give it. Mm-hmm. And if they see them. Mm-hmm. I they work I have a hair business. OK. I am the number one hair seller in Italy here. Ah. Yes. See free promotional. Yeah. What happened to that? Bright twist and extension. So if you want a good, you get to shop.
Yes, I have a shop in Serrano. Ah. Yes. So for that my hair business because I have kids. Mm-hmm. I’m always with my kids. You know how hair works now. Mm-hmm. Two four seven you can be. First, you know, to come to your shop you go they carry picking they are making hair. Mm-hmm. You know you know they you know they nice. Mm-hmm. So that thing they make me now. Mm-hmm. I work as in they work with small time. Mm-hmm. So that time now I know they fit to make an assist. Mm-hmm. The way I want to. Mm-hmm. You understand. Mm-hmm. But at least that’s care what they take. Of the children. Of the children. Mm-hmm. And the way I take they manage the one orga.
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Mm-hmm. They bring, they come. Mm-hmm. Now, if they give and join, you know, say, once the children come up. Come up. Mm-hmm. Say everything will be there. Mm-hmm. In terms of whether I they bring, or I know they bring. I know they bring but a lot they bring will not be money. It will not be money. Yeah. Yes. So women get a lot to bring even without bringing money. Exactly. Ah. They they say what what do you bring to the table. What do you bring to the table? Mm-hmm. Not the only money that they carry enter marriage. Mm-hmm. The number one thing you will use is to enter marriage in a sense. Mm-hmm. Number one thing. Mm-hmm.
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You know, say, and you get something where strong pass gone. Mm-hmm. Now, it makes sense. So true. Yes. If you get a sense, you convince the person where you used to go now. Mm-hmm. He will drop that gone for you. Mm-hmm. You understand. Mm-hmm. So not be the only money that they use. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Enter marriage. And waiting until I go there, everybody says before you enter marriage. Mm-hmm. Try to get a sense. Ah. Sense what they are talking about now. It does not make sense to talk people people. No. Mm-hmm. No. Mm-hmm. That sense I don’t know how I want to explain now. Mm-hmm. But you need to prepare. Mm-hmm. You need to prepare. Mm-hmm. Because marriage is not controlled. Not true. No.
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It is the quietest war. Mm-hmm. I go I go feel tell talk I’m like this the most quiet war. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Where where they where they exist. Mm-hmm. Where nobody fit even knows how to conquer. Mm-hmm. You understand. So, if your husband cheats on you, what does he do? Ha. Eh anyway. I don’t imagine I’m sometimes shouting. Mm-hmm. You understand. You know, say me, I me. Mm-hmm. I am a very stubborn person. Mm-hmm. I will be the person who says I know they like that. They say when we get to the bridge, we cross it. Mm-hmm. And I like I know I be swim. Mm-hmm. So I then prepared myself. Mm-hmm.
Know whether this war I go this river I feel swim I’m or not. Mm-hmm. You understand. Mm-hmm. So that question now. Mm-hmm. Like when I always ask myself that question I tell myself. If my husband cheats. Mm-hmm. It depends on how he takes cheats and I him he down down mouth. Mm-hmm. That sense. Mm-hmm. You get the one take cheat him. Mm-hmm. Oh God, he doesn’t have a problem. Come back home and stay. Mm-hmm. But if he cheats and comes, they tell me I’m a man. I’m a man. I want him, too. I will be a woman. Mm-hmm. So it depends. It depends on how he takes happen. But you not say I say they cheat and I cheat.
Say maybe like may you leave or may you cheat back. Not every cheats where they they live. And not be every man where they live. Because of cheating. Mm-hmm. So it depends on the kind of man a man wants to marry. Mm-hmm. I him determine whether I leave him. Mm-hmm. Like if I say, may I use myself as an example now? Mm-hmm. My husband, go cheat. Come. I do say he cheats. Mm-hmm. I no leave him. Mm-hmm. He him not the kind of man who they they leave like that before he cheated. Mm-hmm. Him don plan. I mean, he already knows I cheated, and he wants to cheat. Mm-hmm. Now, that is why I need to use my senses to understand.
Mm-hmm. Why him cheat that cheat? Mm-hmm. If he cheats, that cheats on to say him don tire for me. Mm-hmm. You understand? Mm-hmm. He did not wish me well again. Mm-hmm. I will let him go. Mm-hmm. Simply because I no go want to be the type of person because of marriage. Mm-hmm. Greed will die here, no. Mm-hmm. You understand? Mm-hmm. But if he cheats, I am ah maybe. Mm-hmm. I didn’t call him a mistake because I was waiting for him don plan right. Mm-hmm. He is not a mistake. Mm-hmm. Ah, OK, I do do. I am sorry. Mm-hmm. He will not happen again. Mm-hmm. And he really I can’t really not be sorry for mouth too. Mm-hmm.
I can’t really see him say he did happen. He did happen. Mm-hmm. Come back home, no problem. So what to be another thing where you observe where they break a lot of marriages in general black, or you go green or. Exactly. Mm-hmm. What thing do I observe on my own? Mm-hmm. Be say some women no get a sense. Ah. Yes. For this Europe. Everywhere. Talk true. I said some women do get a sense. Mm-hmm. How they break a marriage. Then another thing too some men nobody suppose marry them. Ah. Yes. Ah. Mm-hmm. For example, you see a man now. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Let’s say the man is dead 30 years now. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. You observe that man. Mm-hmm. You suppose you will be a woman now. Mm-hmm.
Now you carry picking. Mm-hmm. So now you go distressed. Mm-hmm. Pass. Mm-hmm. As of when you carry that picking. Mm-hmm. One month pass you observe man. Mm-hmm. You never use your senses to calculate how this man’s life go day in the next five years. Ah. Now why I talk say some women no get sense. Mm-hmm. You see a man do. Eh, I will be a man. I will be a sweet boy. Mm-hmm. You go, worker, come back. Mm-hmm. Tell ya my boss no pay me or I no see work oh. Mm-hmm. You carry one month’s belly, right? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Two months ago, he told you the same thing. Mm-hmm. Now you come to the tell I find work now.
Mm-hmm. Eh, I go go, I go go. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. You go come born inside. Born one. You look at me. You go tell yourself say ah. I know one born plenty children with another man oh. Mm-hmm. Make a kukuma decide this one what a day. Ha ha ha ha. Not be what not be what thing they happen mostly. Ha ha ha ha. Then, tomorrow night, the woman tells the rapper God help me. Help you for what? You saw all these things. Mm-hmm. You saw it from the beginning. Mm-hmm. You they want a miracle. You don’t already stand and say this man is. Mm-hmm. So why do you go, Maria? You come, they pray, I need help. Oh, my man, know they help my children.
You know they pay school fees. You know them. But outside of responsible men, we try to talk about now. Mm-hmm. We get a lot of divorces in Europe. What is the cause of that? For Europe? Yeah. Tch. Europe stress hard. It is hard for everybody. Mm-hmm. If couples, no. Mm-hmm. Understand themself. Just the way I said. Mm-hmm. Tch. It is hard to stand. But that already they talk say good women know they here. Good women know they are here. What do you think? But if good. He does not say no, and vice versa if good women know they are here. Mm-hmm. Not so bad men eh good men know they too. Not true. Yes. Mm-hmm. Because we are attracted to what we are. Mm-hmm.
Eh, if he says good women know they are here. Mm-hmm. Meaning says you safe where they talk say good women know them. You too, you know, good. Ah. Yes. Ah. Because even if you go down Nigeria. Mm-hmm. Divorce plenty. Mm-hmm. Bad women everywhere. Mm-hmm. So. So if I am your friend and I say I won’t go to Nigeria, I marry, or I won’t marry for you. What will you tell me? I will first ask you. You don’t try to make a relationship here, you know. Because na here your base. Mm-hmm. You cannot be talking where you know they are now. Mm-hmm. At least we are people down there for five to ten years. Now, where do you base your understanding? Mm-hmm. You go first to find here. OK.
If you do not get here, then try there. But how about that when they say good women know they here not get respect. Mm-hmm. And me I know not about respect but what thing I think about that. Mm-hmm. What thing I think or I know know. Mm-hmm. We say women here. Mm-hmm. They are already exposed. They don’t socialize. Mm-hmm. You understand past Nigerian people. Mm-hmm. So like that like whether they tell us say once you come abroad. Mm-hmm. Everything is done there. Mm-hmm. So now what thing they some people for I for Nigeria. Mm-hmm. So they give you that Nigerian people give you more respect. Mm-hmm. To get that in. Ah. You understand. Even if they now not go abroad.
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Mm-hmm. They do want to make their children come too. Mm-hmm. So they go they lawyer they lick your leg. Mm-hmm. Just make it be said and get that in where they want. So true. So now you make that they feel say women where they here not get respect. But we aren’t already there now. We don’t come. Mm-hmm. So what thing with that like you want to tell us now. Mm-hmm. Now, me and you there here, we know the system. Ah. But Nigeria, now you tell them. Say I get the time you carry 200 euro now. Mm-hmm. Where we say me and you know see if you enter short come I don’t drive. Mm-hmm. You carry and go Nigeria use to entice you, man.
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Hey everybody, go, they worship you. Mm-hmm. Because of time to lie to you. Mm-hmm. You understand. So now what you know, I know where they happen. It is clear well well. So to write up this program now which advice you give for somebody with you watching out to this very moment and thanks of marriage are in general anyone is that before you do anything you want to do. Mm-hmm. Just ask yourself a question 10 times this, and I want to do it. I really want to. I’m why I want one. Mm-hmm. Once you don’t know ask people because people tell you what to them. They feel you understand. Once you don’t ask yourself that question, you get a positive answer. Mm-hmm. You sure. Mm-hmm. Then do it.
We’re done now. My ring person for abroad or in Nigeria. First, ask yourself questions on your own. Mm-hmm. Then, sometimes, in life, you have to be selfish. Ah. Yes. You have to be selfish and protect yourself before you protect another person. If you know if you protect yourself, nobody will protect you. So if you say you know a woman, women cheat on you. Mm-hmm. First, protect yourself. No cheat. Mm-hmm. If you want to make a man not cheat on you, first protect yourself. No cheat. If you want a man to love you, first love yourself. Mm-hmm. Because if you love yourself, man not going to punch you today, punch you tomorrow. No. Mm-hmm. Yes. If you love yourself very well, everybody will follow you the way you are. Mm-hmm.
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Everybody will respect your bed the way you respect your bed. Mm-hmm. So now the. Wait till I tell people that. Man, take down and take the whole body. Thank you so much. My sister. Yes. I agree, too. So, thank you, guys, for watching. If you made it to this very moment, drop it in the comment section. I T D drop it with the emoji love. I know my people. Yeah. So, thank you so much for watching, and I look forward to seeing my next video. Please do not forget to give this video a thumbs up because it takes a lot of work. Ciao.
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